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Why am I saving money?

This is one of the most important question you need to ask yourself before you start doing anything about your personal finance. Always start with why first whenever you started anything. Why are you learning a new skill? Maybe because you want to embark in a new career. Why are you start running? Maybe because you want to have a better health to accompany your kid during his growing journey.

So, why are you saving money? Because you really do not have much material needs? Because you want to save up for that year end trip? Because you want to buy some asset and redeem back your time freedom from working life? Or maybe you are saving for a house payment after marriage. Whatever it is, without a clear reason behind your action, very soon you will feel that saving money is a sacrifice.

For me, I have passed that phase long ago. I realised I value time freedom so much that I don’t feel sacrifice when I am saving money. In a matter of fact, I actually feel very proud to be able achieve an increasing saving rate although my income remains the same, imagine how fast will my progress will be when my income level rising over the time. My best bet now will be working super hard and super smart to increase my professionalism and my income.

The idea of multiple stream of income has became more and more popular as more and more people value freedom and they realise that they don’t want to work in an unfulfilling job all their life and place the control of their life on the hand of another person. However, what this idea fails to capture is that we should build the multiple stream of income one step at one time. Focus on your regular job, sharpen your professional skill and making sure that you main source of income is stable and strong enough before explore other source of income. It is always your main job that has the most potential to earn you the most money compare to whatever side line you try to pursue during your night time and weekend. No doubt there are people who are able to create large income source using their night time and weekend hours, but they are in the minority. For the most of us, our best bet is still with our day job.

Back to the topic of saving money. Change of mindset is a must. And reading and implementing those saving tips that spread all over internet is not helpful. For example, instead of shopping around for the car that provide the best value for your money, try bus, MRT or bicycle. Instead of comparing between various value phone plan, choose a basic phone and prepaid card. Maybe you would say most of the people are holding a smartphone, what is wrong with that? Why am I asking people go back to ancient time and use those ancient phone with limited function and unpressable button. As I mentioned in my previous post, a $42 monthly commitment required you to invest more than 10K into an investment vehicle that has a return of 5%. With this calculation in mind, I certainly think twice or even thrice before I sign my name on any dotted line.

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Don’t let debt control your life.

I was meeting one of my friend and had a few hours talk that day. One of his idea intrigued me, which is about how took up mortgage and car loan make him a better person, a more responsible person. His argument to me was with more loan/mortgage, he felt he had more responsibility financially. It motivated him to work harder, went out to work more often, earned much more income. As the conversation get longer, I started to feel more and more uneasy with his ideas. Somewhere inside me feel that maybe he got the sequence wrong, it was not those debt/mortgage that made him a better person, he became a better and more successful person before he can afford those loan/mortgage.

It is a popular idea to divide debt into good debt and bad debt nowadays. Good debt by definition is the debt that can earn you money, create more cash flow for you, bad debt is the opposite side of good debt. Accumulate bad debt is easy, just go out there and buy that fancy car or that latest gadget on the shelf on credit when you have no idea how to pay off the other two credit card that you has used up their credit limit. Good debt is a bit tricky, I read a few books on this, and I still confuse. The idea seems to be you borrow money  you don’t have to invest in investment vehicle that nobody can guarantee its return. If return on investment of that vehicle is higher than the interest on the money you borrowed, you are called ‘leverage’ else you are ‘over leverage yourself’.

Right now, I am not ready to take on double risk for my own personal finance planning. Saving accumulation still the number one priority on my list now, professional development for a higher paying job is second on the list. Sometime I get into discussion with friend about whether high saving rate or high income is more important, that discussion always ended both parties agree that both are important. With living cost in Singapore maintain at certain level, you cannot have a high saving rate if your income is too low. In theory, a person with a monthly income of 10K, A and saving rate of 80% is having the same live style as another person with monthly income of 2K, B and no saving. In this case, if B is able to increase his income without increase his expense, his saving rate will be growing without his knowing and not affecting his life style.

Back to the topic of debt, sometime people don’t realise the effect from their purchase. Take smartphone as an example, a decent smart phone can cost up to $1000 now. Assuming a typical consumer change their phone every 2 years, which means he has a monthly instalment of about $42. This instalment is permanent unless his behaviour changes and stop chasing the latest gadget every two years. Now let’s see what did he gave up for that smartphone. In order to produce that same $42 every month with a investment vehicle that return 5% per annual, he need to invest ($42 x 12)/5% which means $10080 invested.

Of course I am not suggesting that you are not allowed to buy a phone unless you have $10080 accumulated in your investment. You are free to spend your money anyway you want since you have put in the hard work to earn that money. I just hope that before you make decision that will affect your monthly cash flow, you are fully aware what are you buying into and you are perfectly comfortable with that.

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How To Enjoy A Delayed Gratification

We are living in a society of abundance now, with plenty of products to chose from the market place. Although we all know that the optimal strategic is delayed gratification because the price of the product eventually go down after the initial marketing boost is over. But knowing in theory and apply it in reality is different, I guess it is in our gene to enjoy instant gratification because we human has been living in a world of scarcity for so long before the industrialization came along and boost our productivity.

So, in order to curb our desire to own everything the second we saw them, what can we do?

This is a small tip my psychotherapist friend teach me to overcome my obsession of books. Before I used this technique, I am buying about 4-5 books per month and I see no end to my obsession and I am running out of space to store all those books.

After using the technique, I am more in control of my buying desire. I am able to pause for a while before I make the purchase decision. And I am now have more patient to wait for that book to be available in the library for loaning, which does helps a lot to reduce my book budget. In some month, I ever managed to completely wipe out my expense on book purchase.

This is how it goes:

1. You saw something (be it guitar, book or iPad) you think you want to have it.
2. You look at yourself as an external party, something like another person who know what are you thinking.
3. And you tell yourself something like “ok, this me is seduced by latest product again, he is falling to the marketing plot again. When is he going to wake up?”
4. By looking at yourself as external party and asking all those question, maybe it helps to delay your purchase decision because you are not so engaged right now with the product and you can have a better judgment whether is this newer product going to add value to you or not.

Hope this helps.

 

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